15 fundamental differences between IGNORATE men and INITIATE men

1) The Ignorant man is full of superficial ideas about life,
constantly having the impression that he knows a great deal about
almost anything. He runs from one woman to another and from one
relationship to another, only looking for easy and selfish pleasures.
The Initiate man has high ideals to which he dedicates most of his
thoughts and aspirations. He engages profoundly and consciously in
spiritual relationships, aiming to make his lover happy.

2) Once he finds a woman he likes, the Ignorant man uses her for
satisfying his own pleasures, aiming to satisfy any of her small
desires, in order to make her depend on him.
The initiate man maintains his verticality on his path to perfection,
aiming at the same time to make his lover truly happy. He helps her
build her own way towards happiness.

3) Due to his selfishness and superficiality, the Ignorant man tends
to run away from the woman in his life when the relationship becomes
too serious.
The Initiate man maintains the state of transfiguration and continues
to deepen the relationship, making it a truly serious relationship.

4) The Ignorant man who does not know about sexual continence "buys"
his sexual satisfactions by making compromises with his lover.
The Initiate man who practices sexual continence and who knows the
secrets of transmutation and sublimation is able to erotically fulfill
his lover, without becoming addicted to sensual pleasure.

5) The Ignorant man aims to make the woman depend on his presence and
he forcefully imposes on her certain ideas or even limits that he has.
The Initiate man aims to perfect himself and allows his lover to
choose her path, confident in love and the victory of authentic values
over superficial temptations.

6) The Ignorant man who does not know or does not apply sexual
continence constantly remains at the same level regarding the art of
lovemaking. He has sex in a superficial way, dominated by primal
instincts and aiming for quick satisfaction. He encourages inferior
tendencies within the woman and has no concern for her erotic
fulfillment.
Day by day, the Initiated man comes closer to perfection in the art of
lovemaking with continence and has no other purpose for lovemaking
than to merge with his lover at the highest levels and to reach the
state of happiness and perfect androgyny together. He is firm in
applying sexual continence and he encourages his lover in this
direction.

7) Out of the desire to prove himself able, the Ignorant man chases
women, but he never gets too close to his lover, at the soul level he
keeps a "comfortable" distance from her, most of the time staying
alone and seeing in this attitude a proof of manhood.
The Initiate man knows the absolute importance of love and the
importance of sacrifice in love, therefore he does not waste any
moment without opening towards his lover and giving love. In all women
he sees the cosmic lover which he adores in eternity.

8) The Ignorant man is delighted by bad girls, who satisfy the primal
instincts he manifests especially in sexual interaction. Due to his
ignorance and to his down going tendency, he despises so called good
girls. For him qualities such as purity, modesty, intelligence,
refined sensuality, profound affection, spontaneity, spiritual
openness are seen as handicaps.
The initiate man adores women and transfigures them. In this way, he
can see the specific divine qualities in any woman. He appreciates
"good girls" and encourages them through his transfiguration to bring
into light and to fully manifest all their latent qualities, which
they are often unaware of.

9) The Ignorant man reaches orgasm with ejaculation very fast, leaving
the woman
frustrated and tormented. Therefore, for him lovemaking is an effort
which in time tires him. This is why he will gradually aim to replace
it with watching TV, making comments about the football matches,
drinking alcohol and so on.
The Initiate man effortlessly engages in erotic fusions, which due to
sexual continence become as many occasions to make his lover happy and
in this way to reach states of cosmic consciousness together.

10) Due to his superficiality and his ignorance about sexual
continence, the Ignorant man has a subconscious fear that he cannot
fulfill women erotically. This is why he aims to impose on her the
image of a tough man or a macho man, which includes many sexual
limitations, meant to make her have less desires.
The initiate man maintains his self control, due to his effortless
control over the sexual energy. This is why his attitude is natural
and without any prejudices, he then encourages his lover to develop
her creativity in lovemaking games.

11) Lacking self confidence, the Ignorant man aims to keep the woman
he likes addicted to him, satisfying her moods and requests and not
daring to tell her when she makes mistakes.
The initiate man sets his lover free, knowing that the effect of
strong polarization is stronger then any dependency.

12) Because he completely lacks life experience and being almost
always caught up in his states and experiences only at the surface
level, the Ignorant man is only present in the couple relationship
when it is pleasant, and he runs away when the woman has to pass
certain tests, considering that it is her business.
The initiate man knows the value of self sacrifice, which comes from
love, and he stands by his lover when she has certain problems,
offering her his strong support.

13) Ignorant man takes by himself whatever he wants from the
relationship, without considering whether what he wants is also what
the woman wants. He believes that what matters is that he is happy and
content.
The initiate man follows the tantric principle: "The greatest
happiness of the tantric man is to make his lover completely happy."
Therefore, he engages in a couple relationship with the belief that to
give is more important than what he would take by himself.

14) When he suffers due to certain mistakes in the couple
relationship, the Ignorant man completely blames the woman and he is
satisfied with himself, saying that he did everything he could do.
The Initiate man aims to become perfect in any situation and he does
not avoid the responsibilities he has within the couple relationship.

15) When he falls in love, the Ignorant man does not see anything else
and he behaves as if blinded by his desires. Thus, he easily becomes
the victim of his own illusions.
The initiate man falls in love with his heart, for him the state of
falling in love is an extraordinary way of accessing higher levels of
manifestation, he is constantly attentive to the divine game of
synchronicities.

Hearing these things, the Ignorant man will feel indifferent,
considering that it is not about him. Only in certain cases will the
Ignorant man put himself together and make a system of transformation.
In other cases, the Ignorant man will superficially laugh at these
revelations, avoiding any analysis in depth, or he will violently
reject any of the statements above.
The Initiate man will listen carefully, in silence, to all these
statements and he will lucidly analyze his inner state, identifying
the areas he still needs to work on. At the same time, he already
makes a plan for future transformations, including his lover in this
process of clarification and self-analysis.